Caring for Families, Strengthening the Church

Supporting your congregation means caring for their present and preparing for their future.

Churches today are shouldering greater responsibility as members face aging, caregiving, and financial pressures. Pastors and leaders are being asked to guide people through some of life’s most difficult decisions — often without the tools they need.

Yew Tree can help by providing resources that protect families, strengthen congregations, and sustain ministries.

Three generations of an Oklahoma family and their pastor

Case Study: A Family’s Legacy Across Generations

At New Hope Church, Pastor Martin noticed a familiar pattern: families with multiple generations in the pews were quietly struggling.

The Thompsons were a faithful family—grandparents in their 70s, their adult children in their 40s, and even teenage grandchildren involved in the youth group. But when the grandfather was hospitalized, stress quickly set in. Who could speak for him? How would the family manage his bills and medical decisions? Disagreements began to emerge, and even their faith-filled homes felt the strain.

The church realized this wasn’t just one family’s story — it was happening across the congregation.

With Yew Tree’s support, Pastor Martin introduced planning resources that gave families clarity and confidence: healthcare directives for older members, POAs that allowed children to help when needed, and updated wills that honored family first while also leaving room for generosity toward the ministries they loved.

The Thompsons found peace knowing decisions were already mapped out. Their children were relieved of uncertainty, and their grandchildren saw an example of faithful stewardship in action.

For the church, the outcome was more than secure documents — it was a stronger, more united congregation.

This is Where You Start

For church leaders, the first step isn’t becoming a legal expert. It’s opening space for faithful, practical conversations.

  • Equip your members with accessible planning resources (wills, Oklahoma POAs, healthcare directives).

  • Support caregivers by connecting them with guides and checklists that reduce overwhelm.

  • Strengthen your church’s future by helping members align their planning with both family priorities and ministry values.

  • Protect your role as a pastor — offering pastoral guidance while leaning on trusted partners for the technical side.

Why Planning Matters for Families

In times of stress, even the most loving families can become fractured. Disagreements about medical care, financial decisions, or inheritance can turn into lasting division — often at the very moments when unity is most needed.

Thoughtful planning eases that burden. It provides clarity, reduces conflict, and allows families to walk through difficult seasons with peace and dignity. As a church leader, supporting planning is not only a practical step — it’s a ministry of reconciliation and care.

What You’ll Get

When you partner with Yew Tree, you’ll receive:

  • Ready-to-use planning guides tailored for Oklahoma.

  • Checklists and fact sheets your members can complete at their own pace.

  • Educational workshops you can host with Yew Tree with minimal preparation.

  • A referral pathway for complex situations that require legal or financial professionals.

Access Your Planning Toolkit Today

📬 Sign up to receive your Church Leader Planning Toolkit. It includes:

  • Guidance on how to introduce planning to your congregation.
  • Member-friendly checklists and forms.
  • Tips for encouraging legacy giving that honors family first — and then the ministry.

Emotional Reassurance

📝 As a church leader, you don’t have to carry these burdens alone. Your role is to shepherd with wisdom and compassion — not to solve every legal or financial challenge. With Yew Tree as a resource, you can support your congregation in ways that are both pastoral and practical.

Want to Talk Through Your Situation?

No pressure. No sales. Just support, clarity, and a path forward.

If you’re feeling ready to take the next step—or just want to talk things through with someone who understands—we’d be honored to meet with you. Whether you’re planning ahead, facing a decision now, or helping someone else, you’re not alone.