Your Life. Your People. Your Choice.
When crisis hits, hospitals, courts, and systems don’t ask who you love—they ask who you’ve named.
That’s why legal documents like a Healthcare Power of Attorney, HIPAA Authorization, and Durable Power of Attorney matter. But just as important as filling them out is being clear on who you’ve entrusted with those roles.
Why Naming the Right Person Is More Than a Form
- They become your voice when you can’t speak for yourself
- They may have to fight for your wishes if challenged
- They’ll carry out your instructions in everything from medical care to finances
If you haven’t named anyone, most states fall back on a legal hierarchy: spouse, parent, adult child, sibling. That may not reflect your actual relationships—especially for LGBTQ+ individuals, people estranged from family, or those who rely on chosen family.
What to Consider When Naming Someone
Ask yourself:
- Do I trust them to stay calm under pressure?
- Will they respect my values, not just their own?
- Are they willing and able to act if something happens suddenly?
- Do they understand the role—and have I talked to them about it?
And remember: you can name more than one person. A backup is often just as important as your first choice.
Where to Make It Official
You’ll want to formally designate people in:
- Your Healthcare Power of Attorney (for medical decisions)
- Your HIPAA Release (to access medical information)
- Your Durable Power of Attorney (for financial matters)
- Your Advance Directive or Living Will (to guide end-of-life care)
- Emergency Medical Cards or shared digital files
All of these should be signed, dated, and ideally notarized.
What Happens If You Don’t?
You’ll want to formally designate people in:
- Your Healthcare Power of Attorney (for medical decisions)
- Your HIPAA Release (to access medical information)
- Your Durable Power of Attorney (for financial matters)
- Your Advance Directive or Living Will (to guide end-of-life care)
- Emergency Medical Cards or shared digital files
All of these should be signed, dated, and ideally notarized.
Real Stories Matter
The Impact of Your Choices: Real Stories
Listen to the journeys of people who faced tough choices and how naming important individuals has shaped their experiences. This real-life account highlights why identifying the right people in our lives is essential. It’s more than just a legal step; it’s a heartfelt bond built on trust and love.
- Stories that reveal the importance of connections.
- Insights into the significance of naming others.
- Real testimonies of love and care.
